“Not everyone will like you… and that’s perfectly okay.”A few months ago, a guest came to our house.As we usually do when someone visits, I asked him,“Tea or coffee?”“Tea,” he smiled.I went into the kitchen and made tea the way we always make it at home. A little milk, some tea leaves, sugar—the usual recipe.I brought the cup and placed it in front of him.He took a sip.For a moment, I thought he didn't like it.Then he smiled politely and said,“It’s lovely… but I usually drink tea without sugar.”Without thinking, I immediately apologized.“Oh! I should have asked you.”He laughed.“No need